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Robin Taylor (he/him)'s avatar

I had heard the narrative that coming out as trans would ruin my marriage and my family, and it held me back for more than a decade. Thankfully I was wrong. It certainly wasn't easy to have those hard conversations with my wife and kids, but we muddled through. In the end I think we learned to love one another more openly and honestly. It's still a work in progress, but so is any relationship.

Being trans, coming out, living authenticly... These things don't end a relationship. They open a door. You can walk through it together or not. Thank you for demonstrating that the old narrative isn't true, and that we need to build a new narrative focused on truth and joy.

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elle kennedy fell's avatar

Thank you so much for this post, Rey. I came out to my cis girlfriend about a year ago and was terrified. However, she told me that she loved ME, even if that meant I wanted to transition. As trans people, we don't become new people after coming out/transitioning, we become more of our true selves. Despite how scary it can be to come out to a partner, I agree with you that it is absolutely possible to maintain love in whatever capacity that might look like! <3

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