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Baxstar Jonmarie Ferguson's avatar

I'm struck by the similarities with other axis of oppression which also degender people in various ways — disability and fatness come to mind as two I have experienced as well, but I have also read Black authors write about the degendering experience of being racialized, especially for Black women, who tend to be masculinized. (As opposed to Black men who tend to be stereotyped as the epitome of hyper toxic masculinity.) This strict application of binary gender is so integral to all these intersection systems of colonial capitalism.

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Gary Weichselbaum's avatar

I believe that younger people may not realize that sexual attraction expands as you age. By this I mean that i may not have found a 70 year old woman attractive when I was 25, but I assure you that now that I am in my 70’s I do. Also, I am blessed to wake up to the love of my life every morning. When I do, sometimes my thoughts are of love, sometimes of friendship and sometimes purely sexual or a combination of all of that. I think that is much more common at my age than a younger person might think.

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