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Robin Taylor (he/him)'s avatar

Such kind, beautiful guidance on what can be a hard topic.

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Amy - The Tonic's avatar

Wish I had this post ten years ago, Rey. Super helpful! I get the privilege of talking about trans people and issues frequently thanks to being blessed with a sibkid who lights up my life and those around them. Usually these conversations involve gentle education and correction, but at a recent dinner out with my husband and his childhood friend (both cis het men), the conversation got more pointed around pronouns. It took a lot for me to breathe through it and lay out my thoughts. What seemed to turn it was mentioning the risk of suicide and how the idea of losing someone so incredibly loving and kind is way more of a tragedy than anyone having a “struggle” retraining their neurons around pronouns. And it’s incredibly sad to me that we have to go that far in order for others to get it, but in so many situations, we ARE talking about life and death matters.

Sorry I went dark here. All of this to say, I’m so thankful that you and others are here providing this kind of education and guidance 💛

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