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Why be thrown in martial arts? Queer trust & consent

What people don't understand about aikido
Rey Katz 5 min read
Why be thrown in martial arts? Queer trust & consent

Every time I share my writing about aikido, the martial art I practice, my scenes are received with confusion. I’m happy when someone comments, “this part made sense, but I didn’t understand this other part at all.”

Hey, at least that one part made sense. Yay!

So maybe, gradually, over time I can compile all the little parts that make sense and create a story about martial arts.

Photo of Rey in a sideways pose balancing on one arm and one leg, in the middle of a lot of white and purple spring flowers

But I was surprised by a recent comment. A writer friend asked me, “Why would you want to be thrown hard by the instructor? I don’t get it. Doesn’t that hurt or cause bruises?”

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