Mindset

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Oh, that was a fawn response...

People-pleasing can keep us safer, but is not the only way to defend ourselves

Rey Katz Mar 7, 2024 4 min read

Mindset

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Maybe I don't remember who I was

I told that man to stop emailing me. But did I?

Rey Katz Mar 3, 2024 4 min read

LGBTQ+

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A coming-out story

How joy and support helped me find how I fit in

Rey Katz Feb 25, 2024 4 min read

LGBTQ+

Are dating apps social media?

And why do they make us feel so bad

Rey Katz Feb 18, 2024 4 min read

LGBTQ+

The frustrations of dating while trans

So, when *is* the perfect time to tell your date?

Rey Katz Feb 11, 2024 4 min read

LGBTQ+

Being trans in a long relationship

Yes, trans people can have lasting relationships too

Rey Katz Feb 4, 2024 4 min read

Amplify Your Work

How to write about trans people with respect (on The Author Stack)

My guide to help you support and attract LGBTQ+ readers

Rey Katz Feb 2, 2024 2 min read

Mindset

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Why we need women's self-defense classes

And what about trans, nonbinary, or LGBTQ+ spaces for learning self-defense?

Rey Katz Jan 28, 2024 4 min read

Books

What If I'm Right About Being Trans (in True Magazine)

An essay and review of Schuyler Bailar's He/She/They: How We Talk About Gender and Why It Matters

Rey Katz Jan 26, 2024 2 min read

Newsletter

Yes, you can still say "women."

I support women's spaces. I also support all-gender spaces. They are not the same.

Rey Katz Jan 21, 2024 5 min read

LGBTQ+

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Gender is morally neutral

It's okay to share who you are

Rey Katz Jan 14, 2024 6 min read

LGBTQ+

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Gender isn't just for young people

Attraction + Gender + Age = Complicated

Rey Katz Jan 7, 2024 5 min read